The Strength In Yourself
We all have the ability to change who we are in order to become who we want to be. We as humans can sometimes forget our common characteristics that we each have in ourselves. Courage, character, and confidence; the three C’s we all have. But sometimes, in situations, we can lose those. Sometimes we have courage to take stands, but lack the character to do so. Sometimes we have a strong character, but lack the confidence to realize it. What we don’t realize, is that sometimes all at once, we can lose all three and when we do, we don’t realize the effect it not only has on ourselves, but the effect it has on others.
Character is tested when you’re in situations and you don’t know what to do. How we react and behave in that situation determines our character. Character is tested almost everyday for everybody. Do you pick up that dollar and keep it to yourself, or give it back to the person who dropped it? Do you continue hitting somebody who’s unconscious on the floor or do you pull yourself away and walk away? Do you take drugs because you’re pressured from your peers or do you say no? Those moments, those actions; test your character. We all, teenagers and adults, battle with character everyday. What do you do when you lose character? Do you try to make things right, or do you go on with your day like it never happened? That is when your test in courage comes in.
Courage is to me, standing up for somebody or for something that you believe to be right or true. Basically, courage is something that tests our character as well. Do you have the courage to tell your teacher so and so cheated on a test, even though others will be mad with you? It would be the right thing to do, but do you have the courage to do it? Do you have the courage to tell a teacher or councilor that somebody is being bullied, knowing the bully will know it was you who told? Do you stick up for someone who is being harassed or teased? That is where confidence now comes into play.
Confidence is trusting in yourself and who you are as a person. You need confidence to have courage, and you need courage to have character. Confidence is when you had the courage to do something, now you need to have confidence to keep your head up and ignore those who try to make you lose it.
In one moment, with one action, you can lose all three of those characteristics. Then what? We as students, as high school students, as teenagers, are just now realizing how quickly we can lack these characteristics and how in doing so, can affect others around you. That is why it is so important, that no matter what others might think or what others might do; that you take a stand in what you know and believe is the right thing to do. Do not worry about what others do or say, because you know who you are and you know what you believe in. Don’t let anybody else stand in your way.